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“Service to other is the rent you pay for your room here on earth” Muhammad Ali 1942-2016

A year ago I saw this graffiti on the streets of Birmingham, U.K.I reposted now on the web because a few days ago an Instagram story made me think 💭

An image whit camp beds in a big room and a beautiful soul from Verona thanking for all the help received.

I asked her what happened and her answer was this:

“In this time not everyone has a bed and a roof to sleep.

And everyone should have a bed at this time mostly!”

That was all.

I thanked her for the good work that she does in the other people’s life but no reply.

She is not concerned to be socially licked but to bring help where is needed.

As I said this message made me 💭 think and think in the past few days and now I’m thinking again.

What makes someone think about the others and what makes someone really help the others not thinking only but most important Taking Action!

So, even more, what is the difference between 2 people in a Europe under the snow in March when everyone waited the spring to come.

A person complaining that her party at the club or restaurant being cancelled for the snow, a trip long time waited or just the discomfort of being under the snow make some people complain about their situation and Other people Start Thinking at other people and How can them Help and Start to Take actions Through this desire of Service.

I call them The Real Heroes

But what makes a human being act in a way or in the other.

The environment?

The DNA?

The Education?

A superior state of Consciousness?

In a different way, we have just understood that Helping others is not a choice but a Duty a Responsibility?

I remember when a few years ago I used to prepare food baskets and going in the night alone or with my fiancé at the time or with a few dear friends and just leave the food and sweets near them, only when something seemed strange we awaked them to put their food in a safe place.

But still nowadays Verona, north Italy is a safe place so normally we didn’t wake them up.

My idea was to act like this because we didn’t do it for showing something we did it because we Felt the Urge to help.

It was more than a basket of food it was a message that they are not alone, that sometimes good things happen, that in a strange way the universe is helping us.

I remember telling to my friends and family that we shouldn’t wake them up because at that moment we where the real Santa even in the summer.

🎅 I did it not for them even if they were the people who were helped by some invisible “Santas” but being truly sincere I did it for my internal well being. I did it because I’m what I call the Egoistic Altruism.

I did it because not doing it felt worse.

I did it for my happiness.

But the difference Between the Altruistic Egoism and the Egoistic Altruism is so huge and I will tell you more about in the next blog post.

Who Are The Real Heroes?


How do we recognise them?

The Real Heroes don’t wear Superhero suits like we have been seen in the movies and cartoons.

They can be anywhere around us!

They can be sitting at the next table in the coffee shop or in line for a train ticket.

They can be of any gender, color and age!

They can have long or short hair!

They can be short or tall!

They can be fit, fat or slim!

The only thing that separates them to the rest of the crowd is their Mentality.

They have the Real Heroes Mentality!

The only time that we can see them is when someone needs help and they act like Real Heroes.

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What I believe


I BELIEVE that one day all the PEOPLE will be FREE from all kinds of misery and suffering.

I BELIEVE that day will come when all the people will be HAPPY AND FREE from jealousy, hatred, revenge and all that feelings and thoughts which are pure poison for the human race and are the core of all the destructions and all the diseases.

I believe that one day will be able to CURE our bodies using only our THOUGHTS and ENERGY without the use of the drugs from pharmacies or any other outside source.

I believe one day all the people will start to use their own mind instead to be used by their mind.

I believe that one day all the leaders of this world instead to fight for WEALTH and POWER creating planetary destruction and slavery of the masses driven by ego, overconfidence, and ignorance will work TOGETHER for the GOOD OF ALL BEINGS driven by AWARENESS and COMPASSION.

I believe in the EVOLUTION of CONSCIOUSNESS, INDIVIDUALY and PLANETARY as well. When all the people will LIVE their LIFE CONSCIOUSLY, the leaders will not be any more NECESSARY.

I believe that one day A NEW WORLD will be born from this beliefs. I believe in a HAPPY LIFE on THIS PLANET.

A planet full of COMPASSION, LOVE, and HARMONY. All this will be possible when all the individuals’ ACTIONS will be GUIDED BY the TRUTH, COMPASSION, with WISDOM and GOOD WILL.

This is not a wish, a burning desire, a dream or a mere hope. THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE and the reason that I WORK so DILIGENTLY to clean up all the misery that I DISCOVERED in my MIND and in the minds of others.

You may say I’m just another DREAMER, but I’m ready TODAY and every day to CHALLENGE MY LIMITS, living OUT OF my COMFORT ZONE and working on my EVOLUTION, BECOMING more and more THE CHANGE I wanna see in the world.

This is what believe, and you know that I’m not the only one. May all beings be happy, educated and free.

-Traian M. Burgui




Fire Vs Wind

The last part of the Eleventh Chapter of Noipap A Soul Story

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-I want you to imagine you’re in your room, the window is open and the wind is blowing, so that the room is soaked through by an air stream. You’re trying to light a scented stick, but once you take the flame away from it, it burns a little and it dies. Now I want you to open your eyes and tell me why is it that the stick keeps dying.

-It’s very simple, because of the wind and because the flame is too small.

-You’re right. Now please close your eyes again and imagine an oak forest with a tree burning right in the middle of it. And when it burns in full swing the wind starts blowing really hard. Now, tell me please, do you think the fire is going to be put out? asked the lady butterfly.

-Definitely not, the wind will do nothing but spread the fire.

-All right, and if the wind changes direction, will it put out the fire?

-No, on the contrary, it will spread it to the surroundings, and the entire forest may catch on the fire.

-The flame of the scented stick is you, and the wind doesn’t have to concern you. If your flame becomes that of an oak, then stronger the wind, the greater you’ll become.”


A Soul Story

To be continued

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The Final Speech from The Great Dictator

I’m sorry, but I don’t want to be an emperor. That’s not my business. I don’t want to rule or conquer anyone. I should like to help everyone – if possible – Jew, Gentile – black man – white. We all want to help one another. Human beings are like that. We want to live by each other’s happiness – not by each other’s misery. We don’t want to hate and despise one another. In this world there is room for everyone. And the good earth is rich and can provide for everyone. The way of life can be free and beautiful, but we have lost the way.

Greed has poisoned men’s souls, has barricaded the world with hate, has goose-stepped us into misery and bloodshed. We have developed speed, but we have shut ourselves in. Machinery that gives abundance has left us in want. Our knowledge has made us cynical. Our cleverness, hard and unkind. We think too much and feel too little. More than machinery we need humanity. More than cleverness we need kindness and gentleness. Without these qualities, life will be violent and all will be lost….

The aeroplane and the radio have brought us closer together. The very nature of these inventions cries out for the goodness in men – cries out for universal brotherhood – for the unity of us all. Even now my voice is reaching millions throughout the world – millions of despairing men, women, and little children – victims of a system that makes men torture and imprison innocent people.

To those who can hear me, I say – do not despair. The misery that is now upon us is but the passing of greed – the bitterness of men who fear the way of human progress. The hate of men will pass, and dictators die, and the power they took from the people will return to the people. And so long as men die, liberty will never perish. …..

Soldiers! don’t give yourselves to brutes – men who despise you – enslave you – who regiment your lives – tell you what to do – what to think and what to feel! Who drill you – diet you – treat you like cattle, use you as cannon fodder. Don’t give yourselves to these unnatural men – machine men with machine minds and machine hearts! You are not machines! You are not cattle! You are men! You have the love of humanity in your hearts! You don’t hate! Only the unloved hate – the unloved and the unnatural! Soldiers! Don’t fight for slavery! Fight for liberty!

In the 17th Chapter of St Luke it is written: “the Kingdom of God is within man” – not one man nor a group of men, but in all men! In you! You, the people have the power – the power to create machines. The power to create happiness! You, the people, have the power to make this life free and beautiful, to make this life a wonderful adventure.

Then – in the name of democracy – let us use that power – let us all unite. Let us fight for a new world – a decent world that will give men a chance to work – that will give youth a future and old age a security. By the promise of these things, brutes have risen to power. But they lie! They do not fulfil that promise. They never will!

Dictators free themselves but they enslave the people! Now let us fight to fulfil that promise! Let us fight to free the world – to do away with national barriers – to do away with greed, with hate and intolerance. Let us fight for a world of reason, a world where science and progress will lead to all men’s happiness. Soldiers! in the name of democracy, let us all unite!

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Noipap A Soul Story

Chapter 11

Some words and a story

After a hard day that was meant to change Papion’s life, he didn’t tell the butterfly a thing about what had happened, but asked her:

-Airam, how can I change myself, when I’m so afraid of losing what I have? How can I express myself to the others when they don’t understand me?

-Let’s take your questions one at a time, starting with the fear of losing. If you’re really satisfied with your life, there’s nothing to change.

You should go ahead with what are you doing!

If, however, you are dissatisfied with what you have and you want to change something, how can you be afraid to lose something you don’t like? So rather than assume certain risks, you prefer to accept a life of discontent?!?

As for the fear of losing, let’s imagine a thirsty man in the desert.

He carries a water container that’s so rotten that the interior walls are filmed with greenish bacteria. Outside it has been raining for some time. Just sitting with his mouth open, he fails to swallow enough water to quench his thirst. Because of his fear of running out of the water he carries, he refuses to spill it and he keeps the lid closed. During this time he wishes for a cup of clean water so much, and he keeps hoping that one will show up… but nothing. Instead, he keeps his mouth open, allowing the raindrops to enter, but he doesn’t manage to appease his thirst.

If he wants fate to smile at him, wouldn’t it be better to understand that it is unlikely for a clean cup of water to appear out of nowhere? Wouldn’t it be easier to empty the one he is carrying, rinse it clean, and let the rain fill it? asked the beautiful lady butterfly.

-Yes, of course, he’d do that, the last fool would do that! No one would hold the lid closed, keeping water that doesn’t serve them anymore, Papion answered. -You know, the one who is afraid that the rain might stop, the one who doesn’t know how long the rain in the desert lasts, the one who doesn’t understand that at that moment the rain is his salvation wouldn’t give up the water in his container! -Okay… but I was talking about life in general.

-And I tell you: Your life is like a container, and you are not satisfied with the contents!! You need to open the lid—that is, to open your mind and remove from your life everything that harms you, and make room for everything you want! You see, we’ve got the wrong idea about what it means to give up. We don’t understand that when we take responsibility for giving something up, we’re just making space for better things that life can offer us!

-And if one aims too high? If his aspirations are really high?

-It doesn’t matter how high you aim, it matters that you understand that in order to succeed, you need lots of practice!! Only if you continue to improve yourself will you succeed! But you need to keep trying until the day you make it!

-All right, but how about waiting for a time when you’re more prepared?

-The best moment to do something with your life is NOW!!! You can’t just sit around and wait for things to change. Inaction is the worst thing for someone who is not satisfied with his life!

I recently received a box with a Tibetan talisman from a dear friend. An image of Buddha and a lotus flower were painted on the box, along with this statement: “ There is nothing more constant in life than change.”

Dear Papion, I really think that life is constantly changing and it all depends on your choices. After all, everything is a choice!

In this moment, you choose to listen to me or not.

You choose whether to act or not!

So remember: Don’t believe everything will remain the same if you do nothing; on the contrary, life goes on! It’s up to you to determine whether your life will be as you wish, or if you will live forever with emptiness because you won’t consider your feelings, your dreams, and what you can become.

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Stories and lessons to be shared with your loved ones

A SUNDAY MORNING, the little Rosan was taken to the circus by his father. Throughout the show he was pleasantly surprised by almost all the acts and acrobatics, both the circus men and the animals. But when he got out of the circus yard, next to a tent, he saw the enormous elephant standing sadly. On the neck of this great creature a rope was hanging attached to the ground by a simple wooden stake.

– Daddy, daddy!! the child said. Why does the elephant look sad?

– Because it’s captive son, and its place is out there, away from these hills, in the wild.

– And then… why doesn’t it go?

– Because it’s tied up, son!

– Daddy, daddy! But it’s tied up to a small wooden stake. With force it must have, it would surely break it in a minute!

– I think so, too, son. The father said, smiling.

– But then why doesn’t it escape, dad?!

– That, my son, I don’t know.

All day long the child asked everyone why doesn’t the elephant release itself, having everything it needs to succeed.

From his playground friends to the uncles, aunts, grandparents and all the other mature people he met that day. But no one knew the answer to his question.

In the evening before supper, the father found his child standing alone in the garden, looking far away, where the animals live freely.

– You’re still thinking about the elephant, son?

Yes and no… I was thinking rather about my stupid question, that there is no answer for.

– My dear, there is no such thing as stupid questions, nor questions without an answer!

So he took him in his arms, he let his wife know they were going to be a little late for dinner, and they left. On the same way they had walked in the morning to the circus, his father looked at him and said:

– If there are questions that keep coming back in your mind and you can’t find an answer, that does not mean they don’t have one, but maybe you aren’t looking for them in the right place.

Getting to the circus, they found a man sweeping the yard, and the father told the child:

– Look, there’s a man you can ask.

– But dad, we came up here to ask an animal keeper of the circus when even grandpa, who is a doctor, didn’t know the answer?

– Son, never underestimate the wisdom of a man, and, more than that, do not let your mind be closed by the illusion of what you think you see. You see just a keeper… I see instead an old man who has spent a lifetime in the circus! In my opinion, he knows more about these animals than your grandfather might know, just like grandpa knows more about healing people than we do.

Everyone in this world knows something more than another, and no man knows everything. Now go and ask him, and see if I’m right.

A few minutes later, the child returned to his father and thanked him for the lesson of life. The father replied:

– Now, if you found out, it’s your turn to teach me why the elephant does not escape.Å

The child told him what he had just heard from the old man with the broom.

Dad, it seems that the elephant tried to escape since day one, but he was too small and the stake was then too big. After a year it kept trying to escape, but the rope and the stake were too strong for him. It seems that

he understood then that it was impossible to get away. And it really was, when he was small…

Meanwhile, the elephant grew but no one told him he was now strong enough to break free.

– You see, son, I want you to remember this day and what you learned today when you grow up. And remember that, if now there is something you can’t do, that doesn’t mean that over time you will not be able to do it. If you wish for something you have to try until you succeed. For there is no unattainable desire but only strong or temporary desires. Now let’s go home to teach those who will want to hear what you’ve just learned.

1 Inspired by CONTEMPORARY LEGEND , The elephant and the rope.